April 25

On Being 60

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On Being 60

Birthdayboy The blessing I get from penning this blog comes from artists who let me know it helps improve their knowledge, and sometimes provides inspiration and steers them to wise informed career choices.

The mission for this blog is not to be about me. However, since this post comes on the occasion of my 60th birthday this week, I’m using it to muse on being 60 and offer witticisms such as, “Any day I wake on the right side of the dirt is a good day”.

Not too old to rock n’ roll

All in all, for one a decade past AARP age requirements, I feel pretty good and happy. I have not joined AARP as I am far from retired and look upon most of what the organization offers as self-serving marketing hype. But then I’m a cynic who doesn’t need 10% discounts at Denny’s or Best Western. On being 60, I may not be quite as happy to enjoy a birthday as little Eli pictured here on his first, but I’m darn close and pleased to report only one of us is wearing diapers and it ain’t me.

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0 – 60 in the blink of an eye

Becoming 60 is much like life in that it sneaks up on you and has you wondering just how one got there there so fast. Or, in my case and more pointedly, how I got there at all. Looking back, in my younger days I tempted fate more than I should have and I am grateful to more fully grasp the saying, “There but for fortune go I.”

Now, being older and wiser, I’m thrilled to have ridden our earthly sphere 60 turns around the sun, and looking forward to many more. It’s humbling to know my life has been lived in relative ease. Whatever quirk of fate blessed me to come forth under favorable circumstances is nothing short of astonishing. Sure, I could have taller, better looking, smarter, funnier with an abundance of wealth and unlimited talent. But in comparison to suffering from poor health or abject poverty anywhere, being a desperate parentless HIV positive child in Africa, or an average citizen of Baghdad praying for an end to violence, I have no complaints.

Sometimers is not age specific

When I couldn’t recall something the other day, I remarked to a young clerk in a store waiting on me despite my gray hair I was not suffering from “Oldtimers.” She told me I just had “Sometimers.” I asked what that was and she said, “You know, it’s like sometimes you just can’t remember shit.” Sounded good to me… now if my car keys just turn up sometime soon.;>)

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My best friend and dear sweet wife, Mary, gave me a lively fun puppy named Maggie Mae for my birthday. It’s hard to imagine a better present, but the Mint Chocolate Chip Ice Cream cake from Baskin-Robbins was a close second. The best gift anyone who enjoys reading this blog could give me is to let others know about it. When you are so moved, please tell the world about it, or at least your friends and acquaintances. I will be forever grateful when you do.

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I help artists and photographers find buyers, sell more art and operate profitably.

Barney Davey

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  1. Dear Barney…wishing you a wonderful birthday and THANKING you for this very moving and warm and personal post. I enjoyed every word of it and know that you wrote it from the heart.
    Your blog is a MUST on my list and your good advice and good sense will last forever.

    Have a great birthday and week.

    Marilyn Sholin

  2. Dear Barney…wishing you a wonderful birthday and THANKING you for this very moving and warm and personal post. I enjoyed every word of it and know that you wrote it from the heart.
    Your blog is a MUST on my list and your good advice and good sense will last forever.

    Have a great birthday and week.

    Marilyn Sholin

  3. Happy Birthday Barney, I for one love your blog and look forward to every one that come my way. Have a terrific birthday MONTH. Just celebrating one day holds way too much pressure for 24 hours.

    Pam Luer

  4. Congratulations on reaching 60! No wonder the birthdays seem to sneak up. The earth is rotating on its axis at 1,038 mph as it moves around its yearly orbit at 67,000 mph. I think that means you have now traveled over thirty-five billion miles spinning like a top the whole way. I know the feeling. Reminds me of this limerick, author unknown:
    There was a young lady named Bright,
    Who could travel much faster than light.
    She started one day
    In the relative way
    And came back the previous night.

    We can look on each passing year as a milestone or a millstone – can look back and marvel at how far we have come and how truly blessed we have been or we can concentrate on the burdens we have carried and curse the day of our birth.

    The choice is ours and you, Barney, have discovered the true fountain of youth as you pour out the wisdom you have accumulated to help others! My birthday wish for you is another 60 productive years that will seem like the blink of an eye compared to the eternity we will enjoy as we step across the threshold to the new life we have been promised by our marvelous Creator!

    Dick Harrison
    http://www.salestipsforartists.com

  5. Happy 60th birthday, Barney.

    Old age is a state of mind. My father stopped driving when he was in his nineties, but remained irascible as ever. One day when my wife drove him to the bank, he complained about the line at the teller’s window. He told her, “That old fart’s taking too long.”

  6. Happy birthday, Barney. Sixty truly is the new forty, dontcha know. And that puppy will definitely keep you young for a long time to come.

    I just found your blog recently and will be subscribing for sure!

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